She snorted. "Grief is an emotion we all suffer, some thrive on it, grow from it, others are consumed by it. Some, like yourself, are driven by it into further grief. There is recklessness, and there is self-destructiveness. The former, when driven by grief, turns into the latter. Which is exactly what you do, you use your grief as an excuse for putting yourself into situations where you might die, as though somehow this will redeem you, as though you might find forgiveness from the lost through it. Utter nonsense of course, but you're not the first, and you will not be the last," Artiya'il answered simply, shrugging at him.
"The memories are your own. I only take the pain, the grief that consumes, and only from those I judge as worthy of my ability. The whole world grieves after all, but I do not devour the grief of every being - only those I have judged and who require my talent," there was no arrogance in her words, it was mere fact, and Shiloh would have backed up her words had she been there - since Shiloh had already been at the receiving end of Artiya'il's abilities. Again she snorted as she plucked the flask from his fingers, holding it up in front of him. "If there is one thing that you cannot do to me, Kale, it is lie in regards to grief. I have lived millennia, I have had the smartest men and women, the slyest, the best liars all tell me such tales, and not one of them could hide what I could see. If the Lady Shiloh could not deny me, do you really believe that you can?"
The Archangel put the flask on the desk, rolling her eyes at him. "It is natural to grieve, but it is you who calls to me, whether you realise it or otherwise. I feel the grief within every living being, none of you can hide from me anymore than I can block you out. You would keep your memories, but the thought of them would not cause you that ache any longer - that is what I do. I devour the pain, I take that which could destroy you internally, and leave you only with the good parts that came before."