"Well there was the second date…which went worse than the first one, believe it or not." Nui sighed, ears and tails flattening. "And that's what I had in mind when I agreed to go to a blind date in Kujishoku. If it's longevity that you're looking for any of the options you listed will do, but there are other problems with picking one of the more 'long-lived' races." The fox girl grimaced as she retold the event to Attie's eager ears. After the first date ended badly, she had holed up in her house for days feeling depressed. She had told Gramps about it, and he mostly asked for the details of who the disruptive exorcist in training was. She swore that she was done with dating forever, but that was just the embarrassment talking. Eventually she talked about it with the mother of one of her childhood friends while helping out at the restaurant. The nice lady offered to give her a referral to a well-known matchmaker in the Ethereal City. Of course, not knowing anything about the process she met up with the woman who arranged a blind date for her. The place and time were set and a brief summary of who she'd be meeting was given. Even though this wasn't her first blind date, Nui was still on edge after that previous disaster. And so, about a month after she had 'broken up' with Shuichi she met with another fox like herself.
This time were was no need to hide her ears and tails, but she took extra care with some help from that friend's mother to look her very best for the big day. She arrived early, made sure she didn't eat anything that would give her bad breath beforehand, and borrowed a few squirts of perfume to rub on her neck. "I still remember what I wore that day. It took me forever to decide what accessories I wanted to use because my first failure shook me up. I eventually picked the pink coral beads and cherry blossom hairpins and matched it with a nice plum-patterned kimono. That date lasted longer than my first one, but it went downhill just as fast. I went in and waited for my date to show up and I have butterflies in my stomach. I was so tense that I thought my throat was going to cramp up. I asked for a few pointers on etiquette from Mrs. Yukari since I was afraid I'd look like a country bumpkin. City folk in Kujishoku are a lot different than the ones who live outside the Spirit Realm. My date came in on time, and for a few seconds I thought I had a chance. It was also my first time meeting another fox, especially with the same tail count. It's supposed to be a big deal among foxes, but it's all just an excuse to put people down. Sort of like how nobles think they're better than others."
Nui's date was a male nine-tailed fox. He had gold eyes and black hair and was dressed in fine silk and embroidery. Her lessons in etiquette were a lifesaver as it helped smooth the conversation over. They introduced themselves to each other and began asking about each other's interests, you know–the typical routine for blind dates. It must have been something she said, as when Nui began sharing her personal interests the man had this amused look on his face. At first she was worried she had done something dumb or embarrassing, but pressed on doing her best to maintain her composure. Freaking out would ruin it all, she had to stay calm. And then it happened.
"It's quite adorable how your interests are so leisurely. I suppose that childish naivety has its own unique charm."
It took a few seconds for that comment to register, and when it did–that was the last straw. In that moment, Nui snapped–standing up and flipping the entire table onto him in a fit of anger. For the past half hour she had been putting up with his snide sarcasm and stealth insults about her and her friends for the sake of making small talk. The tea and snacks went everywhere and she dropped her smiling facade, giving that smug fox a piece of her mind. "THAT'S IT! I'M DONE! Do you think I came here, dressed up, and put on perfume to have you insult my personal interests? Well guess what–I quit! Just because you have the face of a twenty-something year old male after three centuries doesn't mean you can treat me like a kid! YOU CAN TAKE YOUR FANCY FOLDING FAN AND SHOVE IT–YOU DIRTY OLD MAN!!"
"…And so I stormed out of the place, vowing to never date anybody who was more than three years older than me ever again. I've also made it a rule not to date anybody younger than me either. The older non-humans are the wiser they're supposed to be right? Well turns out they're a bunch of self-centered pricks! Just because they've got a few hundred years of seniority doesn't mean they can act all high and mighty!" Nui fumed, angrily wringing a cloth napkin until she calmed down. "Anyway, that's one of the problems you get when you try dating somebody who's a lot older than you I guess. That was my last date before I came here." It was no surprise that anyone would be less than enthusiastic about dating if they had been in her shoes, and it explained the hesitation Nui had when she admitted what she was here for earlier. "So that's why I'm not giving myself high hopes for finding somebody today. Unless we hit it off really, really well–I wouldn't count on it."